Sometimes What The Heart Wants Is Stupid



Sometimes when dating, I let my sadness make me stupid.


For example...


Dylan had left and I was devastated.


But as I’ve mentioned in previous posts, we played the on-again/off-again game for years.


Which was hard for my friends to watch, of course.


One time, I was telling my BFF how I was heading to New York to visit Dylan and she lost it.


“Why are you torturing yourself???” she screamed.


At the time I felt she didn’t understand. But looking back, she was right.


The back and forth only prolonged the demise of a relationship that had run its course—prolonging the pain as well.


I used to tell myself, “The heart wants what the heart wants.”


But sometimes what the heart wants is stupid.


And I knew better. I was smarter than that.


It’s okay to be sad. But it’s not okay to be stupid.


Because being stupid just makes us sadder in the end anyway.


Photo by Steve Halama on Unsplash

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